There are many bad things that can come from blaming other people for your own doing. First off, the person (or people) that you blame can become to hate you and you will most likely lose that person from your life, at least for a little bit. It is not a nice thing to do to someone, especially if you know them and are close to them because that is just going to ruin your relationship with that person. Then, other people can start hating you. They won't want to be friends with you if you're just going to turn your back on them. Plus the guilt of knowing that you made that person go through something awful when it was all your fault. I wouldn't be able to deal with that.
Another thing is that if other people find out what you did you're going to have a worse consequence than if you would have just told the truth and confessed in the first place. It really is a nasty situation. I do kind of understand kind of as a first defense you might be like "oh, well she did it!" and you'll get out of the situation and everything will be dandy, but you really have to think of the consequences. The best route would be to just go with the truth, where everything is fair. If you do something that you're so ashamed of you don't want to tell anyone, then you probably shouldn't have done that thing in the first place!
People will no longer trust you with anything; they will stay far away from you, and try not to get close to you; Think about it, if you knew you could be blamed for something that you had no affiliation by hanging around a certain person, then you probably wouldn't hang out around them, especially if the situation was something major like in the Salem witch trials, you could be put to death, hated by the rest of the town, or some other horrible punishment.
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